Your Engagement Ring Guide
The Beginning of the Rest of Your Life, Side by Side
Getting engaged is one of life’s most defining milestones. It’s a deeply personal moment — a promise, a turning point, a new beginning.
At IRALIS, we don’t see a ring as just a piece of jewelry. We see it as a symbol of your lovestory — handcrafted with intention, emotion, and timeless care. Whether you’ve been planning this step for years or just starting to explore, we’re here to guide you through it all — not with pressure, but with patience, presence, and expertise.
When you’re ready, we are too.
Give It Time
Designing an engagement ring is not something to rush — and we’d never want you to feel like you have to. We recommend a 3 – 4 month window to allow for thoughtful exploration, custom creation, and small adjustments.
During this time, you’ll be able to:
- Learn what matters most to you and your partner
- Explore shapes, styles, and metals
- Select the perfect diamond and customize the jewelry design
- Consider how the engagement ring will sit with the wedding band
- Receive the final ring proposal-ready, perfectly wrapped
Remember: the best stories take time. This is yours.
The IRALIS Replica Ring Experience
A Signature Service of Ours
We understand — sometimes, you want the moment to be magical without
second-guessing the ring style. That’s why we offer the Replica Ring Experience: a thoughtful, no-pressure option for those who want to propose first and refine later — together.
How It Works:
Choose a Design You Love
Pick the diamond shape, metal, and style that feels right. We’ll guide you through this process if you’re in need of personal assistance.
We Create a Stunning Replica
Using gold-plated sterling silver and a sparkling cubic zirconia center, we craft a proposal-ready version that looks and feels like the real ring.
The Moment Happens
Presented in our luxury box, the replica is perfect for that life-changing “yes.”
Co-Create the Final Ring
After the proposal, we’ll meet to finalize the ring in 18K gold and a certified diamond — with any changes your loved one dreams of. Best of all, the replica ring is perfect for travelling or activities where you don't want to risk wearing the real ring.
This lets you keep the element of surprise without compromising on the details that matter most.
Step One: Diamond 101
Getting the basic knowledge in diamonds and the way they’re transformed into beautiful jewelry is probably the most important step in this whole process.
Feel free to skip this step if you’re already an expert.
CARAT
Carat refers to a diamond's weight, where one carat is equivalent to 0.20 grams.
CLARITY
Clarity describes the presence of internal or external imperfections in a
diamond.
COLOR
Color grades evaluate the extent of color present in a diamond.
CUT
Measures how effectively a diamond's facets interact with light.
We source only certified diamonds from top grading labs:
GIA: Gemological Institute of America
- An internationally trusted
authority known for its rigorous and consistent grading standards.
IGI: International Gemological Institute
- A transparent and reliable certification body, especially recognized for grading lab-grown diamonds.
HRD: Hoge Raad voor Diamant
- A respected European institute renowned for its precision and attention to detail in diamond grading.
Every diamond above 0.5ct comes with a certificate.
Step Two: The Right Ring Size — A Quiet but Crucial Detail
Getting it right from the start saves a lot of guessing later. Here’s how to find your loved ones size discreetly:
- Use a ring they already wear on the correct hand and finger and place it on our printable ring sizer: IRALIS Ring Size Document
- Ask a close friend or family member, who might know the ring size, to help you out
- Our most accurate option: Order our free IRALIS ring sizer IRALIS Physical Ring Sizer in case they know what is coming.
Step Three: Choose the Right Cut
The shape of a diamond not only defines your ring's brilliance but should also complement your partner's hand beautifully.
For Long or Slender Fingers:
Round – Classic brilliance
Emerald – Sleek and elegant
Asscher – Bold symmetry
Marquise – Adds width and edge
For Shorter or Wider Fingers:
Oval – Feminine and flattering
Pear – Slimming silhouette
Radiant – Structured brilliance
Cushion – Romantic and soft
Step Four: Metals and Material Color
18K Yellow Gold (750)
Warm and timeless, heirloom-worthy.
+ Classic, warm gold tone, especially skin-friendly
+ Often chosen as a symbol of tradition and enduring value
- Softer than platinum, more prone to scratches with daily wear
18K Rose Gold (750)
Romantic and soft, flattering for all skin tones.
+ Romantic, gentle color that flatters every complexion
+ A unique, modern twist on classic gold
- Contains copper, which can cause reactions for sensitive skin
18K White Gold (750)
Sleek and modern, with a brilliant white shine.
+ Radiant white look, reminiscent of platinum
+ Very popular for engagement rings thanks to its modern elegance
- Requires regular rhodium replating (about every 1–2 years)
- Extra care and maintenance costs
Platinum (950)
Naturally white, hypoallergenic, ultra-durable.
+ Extremely long-lasting andexceptionally durable
+ Highest purity, perfect for sensitive skin
- Heavier, which adds to its luxurious feel
- Dense metal, making it heavier and as
expensive as gold
Step Five: Band Width, Settings & Prongs — Design That Holds Meaning
Start with a key question:
Does she want the wedding band to sit flush against the engagement ring?
If so, the engagement ring setting must be designed for that from the start.
That’s because not every ring style naturally allows for a perfect pairing.
A flush fit means that the wedding band sits snugly, side by side with the engagement ring, with no visible gap between the two rings. This creates a seamless, cohesive look — as though the two rings were made to be worn together (because they were!).
Band Width:
- We suggest 2mm minimum for daily wear durability and elegance.
Band Setting:
- Pavé: Romantic, sparkling, and full of light
- Plain: Understated, timeless, and focuses on the center stone
Prongs:
- Round: Soft and classic
- Claws: Bold, secure, and modern — our favorite for clean edges and a confident look
Diamond Setting:
- Bezel Setting: Surrounds the diamond for a modern, secure fit.
- Halo Setting: Smaller diamonds around the center stone for added sparkle.
Make it Yours
True love is never one-size-fits-all. Add meaning with:
Engraving
A hidden message, initials, or a secret date.
Hidden Diamond
A hidden stone representing a milestone on the inside of the ring.
Hidden Birthstone
A deeply personal and meaningful touch.
We are here to help you infuse personality into your engagement ring.
Step Six: The Moment You’ve BeenWaiting For
You’ve planned, personalized, and prepared. Now comes the part that matters most — the ask. We want you to feel confident, calm, and completely present. Your IRALIS ring arrives proposal-ready in our signature box, gift-wrapped with care and intention.
With every engagement ring, you’ll receive:
- Complimentary Resizing (max two sizes), we can’t resize eternity rings
- Lifetime Professional Cleaning
- Elegant IRALIS Gift Packaging
- Access to our Replica Ring service if desired
Congratulations!
From all of us at IRALIS, heartfelt congratulations on your engagement!
This is so much more than just a ring — it’s the beginning of something extraordinary. We’re truly honored to be part of your journey.
Whenever you’re ready — whether it’s today, in a few weeks, or down the road — we’re here with open arms and listening ears. Whether you chose our Replica Ring experience or have questions about care and maintenance, we’ll be by your side, long after your special day.
Because your love story deserves nothing less than perfection.
Reach out anytime:
Write us a message via support@iralis-jewelry.com or meet us for a personal consultation.
